From Dream to Reality: My Journey to Becoming an Author

mindset

Jun 11

In my teenage years, I envisioned a future where I could be an entrepreneur, dictating my own schedule, and living a life of creativity and independence.

I dreamed of writing books, launching a clothing line, and pursuing various ventures that would allow me to carve out my own path. However, life had different plans, and as a teen mom at 16, my dreams took a backseat to the pressing responsibilities of motherhood.

Being a single mother for many years, I was constantly hustling and grinding to make ends meet.

My own goals seemed distant and unattainable as I focused on raising my child, a journey reminiscent of my own upbringing with a single mother. The constant demands of sacrifice and dedication left little room for self-care and personal goals. This is likely a feeling you know all too well.

The turning point came several years ago when I enrolled in a personal branding course by Toni Bubb, the Professional Lover of Life. This course was tailored for individuals eager to establish clear goals and turn their ideas into reality. Toni's guidance was transformative, igniting a spark within me for years.

Through this journey, I crafted my mantra: "Healthy Hustle Keeps You Happy." For me, hustling is about investing in oneself—enhancing the mind, heart, and soul. It's about dedicating time and effort to self-improvement, becoming the best version of oneself, and discovering what truly brings joy and fulfillment.

My work with Amy Perkins, a Clarity & Confidence Coach, enriched this philosophy. Amy helped me dive deeper into my emotions, uncovering hidden layers of joy and pain from both the past and present. This process opened my eyes to the areas I needed to address to build a life of genuine happiness and fulfillment. My journey of self-reflection taught me that amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life lies the opportunity for transformation.

As a single mother of three, I knew I had to do something to reclaim my happiness after a divorce. I’m proof that we can reclaim our sense of fulfillment and happiness by shifting our focus from mere productivity to purposeful living. I began examining every corner of my life—my job, connections, environment, and dreams—to find the happiness I had been longing for.

This shift in my mindset opened up so much, giving me a sense of hope that there is more for me. Even as a single mother, my goals and dreams are still important. I just needed to figure out how to find a healthy balance in between the everyday hustle.

Through self-reflection, coaching, and practice, I learned how to make it happen. I discovered that my aspirations didn't have to take a back seat; instead, they could coexist with my responsibilities. By setting clear priorities and creating a structured plan, I found ways to allocate time and energy for both my children and my personal ambitions. This journey taught me resilience and the importance of self-care, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

I always dreamed of becoming an author, and at 40 years old, I finally made that dream a reality!

Writing a book twenty years ago would have been a completely different story, but the journey I have been on has made this moment all the more meaningful. This accomplishment is a testament to the belief that dreams and goals are achievable at any stage of life. Let my story serve as a reminder that self-belief is key to making your aspirations a reality.

In the relentless pursuit of success, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters: your happiness. By realizing that my happiness was on the line, I took action and embarked on a mission to help others find a balance between hustle and happiness. As I celebrate the release of my book, I felt a tug on my heart to inspire others to find a healthy balance in their everyday hustle.

My book is an invitation to embrace self-discovery, to craft the life you deserve, even when happiness feels sidelined. Within its pages, you'll find insights that will empower you to craft the life you deserve. Even when your happiness is sidelined, know that you have the power to reclaim it. Want to check it out on Amazon: Go here!

Healthy Hustle Keeps You Happy.